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7 Contraceptive Options: An Overview

Practicing safer sex is a vital part of reproductive health and some of the best tools to support safer sex are contraceptives. There is a wide variety of types of birth control and different options suit different lifestyles best. For example, for people who want to prevent pregnancy with a low maintenance option, an implant or IUD may be a good option. Embrace Sexual Wellness has compiled an overview of contraceptive options, with information such as efficacy, pros and cons, side effects, and more. We hope this guide will aid you in figuring out which method will work best for you. Keep in mind that condoms and dental dams are the only form of contraceptive that protects against STIs and should be paired with another method to ensure the most effective protection against pregnancy and STIs. We recommend using at least two methods, one of which should protect against STIs, to ensure the maximum amount of protection.     

Note: all efficacy rates refer to perfect usage of the method and with those that require manual maintenance, human error may diminish efficacy rates

Intrauterine Devices (IUDs)

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Overview

  • Efficacy: 99% effective

  • STI Protection: Does not protect against STIs

  • How it’s used: inserted by a doctor. No manual maintenance required

  • Types

    • Copper (Paragard) 

      • How it works

        • A copper IUD is a plastic body with copper wrapped around it. Copper changes the way sperm cells move so they can’t access the egg. 

      • Benefits

        • High efficacy at preventing pregnancy 

        • Lasts up to 12 years but can be removed at any time by a doctor

        • Can be used as emergency birth control if inserted within 5 days of unprotected sex 

        • Does not need manual maintenance 

      • Drawbacks

        • Insertion can be uncomfortable

        • Initial side effects can be unpleasant but for most, should subside after the first 6-12 months 

        • Does not provide STI protection

    • Hormonal (Mirena, Kyleena, Liletta, and Skyla)

      • How it works

        • Hormonal IUDs release a small amount of progestin which mimics the hormone progesterone that bodies naturally make. These hormones both make the cervical mucus thicker to block sperm from accessing the egg and the hormones can also stop ovulation, meaning there’s no egg present to be fertilized  

      • Benefits 

        • Long-lasting

          • Mirena: up to 7 years 

          • Kyleena: up to 5 years

          • Liletta: up to 7 years

          • Skyla: up to 3 years

        • For some, lightened periods and cramps

        • Can potentially manage symptoms of endometriosis and polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS)

      • Drawbacks

        • Insertion can be uncomfortable

        • Initial side effects can be unpleasant but for most, should subside after the first 6-12 months 

        • Hormones may worsen or complicate pre-existing mental and reproductive health conditions

        • Does not provide STI protection 

  • How to Access It

    • IUDs have to be inserted by a doctor, most commonly an OB/GYN or a clinic like Planned Parenthood

  • Potential Side Effects 

    • Longer and heavier periods and cramps for the first 6-12 months

    • Irregular periods and spotting between periods 

  • Works Best For

    • People who want to “set and forget” their birth control.

    • People who, for whatever reason, can’t or don’t want to use hormonal birth control (copper only) 

    • People who are interested in birth control that has the potential to lighten or get rid of periods (hormonal IUDs only) 

  • Contraindications

    • Conditions that cause pain from vaginal penetration such vaginismus

    • Mental illness (not for all; case by case basis) 

    • People who want a regular, natural period


Birth Control Pills

Overview

  • Efficacy: 91% effective

  • STI Protection: Does not protect against STIs

  • How it’s used: Oral ingestion once a day at the same time

  • Types

    • Combination (estrogen and progestin)

      • How it works

        • The hormones in the pill prevent ovaries from releasing  an egg each month, thickens cervical mucus to block sperm, and thins lining of sperm to lower risk of fertilized egg implanting in the womb.

        • The last week of the pack is hormone-free to allow a period to happen. For those interested in skipping their periods, consult your healthcare professional about not taking the hormone-free week of pills.

      • Benefits 

        • Less strict time window for taking the pill, though it’s recommended to take it around the same time everyday to help stick to the routine

      • Drawbacks

        • Does not protect against STIs

    • Progestin only

      • How it works

        • The hormones in the pill prevent ovaries from releasing  an egg each month, thickens cervical mucus to block sperm, and thins lining of sperm to lower risk of fertilized egg implanting in the womb.

      • Benefits

        • For those who want to lighten or eliminate their period, hormonal birth control may help 

      • Drawbacks

        • Must be taken in the same 3 hour window every day to be effective

        • Does not protect against STIs

  • How to Access It

    • Must be prescribed by a healthcare professional 

  • Potential Side Effects 

    • Spotting or bleeding between periods

    • Sore breasts

    • Nausea

    • Headaches

    • Weight gain

  • Works Best For

    • People who can remember and stick to a scheduled daily routine

  • Contraindications

    • If you’re prone to blood clots and strokes

    • Any condition involving regular vomiting and/or diarrhea, as the pill will not work following these functions

Nexplanon Implant

Overview

  • Efficacy: 99+% effective

  • STI Protection: Does not protect against STIs

  • How it’s used: implanted in arm by a healthcare professional under local anesthetic. No manual maintenance required 

  • Type

    • Nexplanon

      • How it works

        • Releases progesterone to prevent the release of an egg each month and thickens cervical mucus to block sperm cells. 

      • Benefits

        • Long lasting (up to 5 years)

        • Highly effective

      • Drawbacks

        • Does not protect against STIs

        • Requires minor doctor’s office procedure 

  • How to Access It

    • Must be inserted into arm by healthcare professional, most commonly an OB/GYN 

  • Potential Side Effects 

    • Irregular bleeding especially in the first 6-12 months

    • Headaches

    • Breast pain 

    • Nausea

    • Temporary bruising around insertion area  

  • Works Best For

    • People who want low maintenance birth control 

    • People who can’t use estrogen-based contraception

  • Contraindications

    • If you’ve had or do have breast cancer

Depo-Provera Injections

Overview

  • Efficacy: 94%

  • STI Protection: Does not protect against STIs

  • How it’s used: Injected in a doctor’s office once every 3 months

  • Type

    • Depo-Provera

      • How it works

        • Releases progesterone which prevents ovulation, thickens cervical mucus to block sperm, and thins lining of womb to lessen likelihood of egg implantation.

      • Benefits

        • May reduce heavy, painful periods

        • Less maintenance than the pill 

      • Drawbacks

        • Ability to get pregnant may not return for up to one year after ceasing injections

        • Does not protect against STIs 

        • Medium maintenance - requires doctor’s visit every 3 months

  • How to Access It

    • Injections must be performed in a doctor’s office 

  • Potential Side Effects 

    • Changes to period

      • Bleeding more than usual

      • Spotting

      • Lack of a period

      • Nausea

      • Weight gain

      • Depression

      • Sore breasts

  • Works Best For

    • Those who cannot use estrogen-based birth control

    • Those who need a discreet method of birth control 

  • Contraindications

    • If you want to be able to get pregnant soon after ceasing birth control

    • If you struggle with mental illness (case by case basis) 

Condoms

Overview

  • Efficacy: 85% effective  

  • STI Protection: Yes, when used correctly, condoms protect against STIs 

  • How it’s used: worn on the penis to prevent sperm from entering the vaginal canal (external condom) or inserted into vaginal canal (internal condom) 

For an extensive overview of types of condoms and tips for usage, read this Embrace Sexual Wellness article

Diaphragm and Spermicide

Overview

  • Efficacy: 88% effective

  • STI Protection: No, they do not protect against STIs

  • How it’s used: the shallow, bendable cup is inserted into the vaginal canal and covers the cervix to block sperm from entering. Must be used in conjunction with spermicide 

  • Parts

    • Diaphragm

      • How it works

        • Creates physical barrier between cervix and sperm

      • Benefits

        • Non-hormonal option

        • Not as intrusive as more long term contraceptives like IUDs

        • Effective immediately after it’s inserted

        • Few side effects

      • Drawbacks

        • Less effective than other options

        • Efficacy may be affected by human error 

        • Must stay inside vaginal canal for 6 hours after sex but not more than 24 hours

        • Learning curve for inserting it 

    • Spermicide

      • How it works

        • Chemicals stop sperm movement, held in place by the diaphragm 

      • Benefits 

        • Increases efficacy of diaphragm

      • Drawbacks

        • May cause irritation and/or UTIs

        • If you have sex again after applying it, you still must apply it again 

  • How to Access It

    •  Must be prescribed by your healthcare practitioner

  • Potential Side Effects 

    • Frequent UTIs

    • Irritation from spermicide can make vaginal canal more susceptible to STIs 

  • Works Best For

    • Those who cannot use hormonal birth control 

    • Those who don’t mind a high maintenance option 

  • Contraindications

    • If you can’t commit to consistently using the diaphragm properly

    • If you’re allergic to silicone, latex, or spermicide

    • If you have vaginal abnormalities that disallow a proper fit or placement

Patch

Overview

  • Efficacy: 99% effective

  • STI Protection: Does not provide STI protection

  • How it’s used: Must be stuck to either the belly, buttocks, back, or upper outer arm (latter option for Xulane only) and replaced once a week 

  • Types

    • Xulane

      • How it works

        • The patch transdermally introduces the hormones estrogen and norelgestromin, a form of progestin, which suppress ovulation. The patch needs to be replaced every 7 days for the first three weeks of the month and no patch is worn on the last week of the month.

      • Benefits

        • Potentially may help acne and make periods lighter

        • High effectiveness

        • Only needs to be replaced once a week 

        • Possible to get pregnant immediately after ceasing use

      • Drawbacks

        • Only works effectively for those with a BMI below 30

        • Patch may be susceptible to falling off

    • Twirla

      • How it works

        • The patch transdermally introduces the hormones estrogen and levonorgestrel, a form of progestin, which suppress ovulation. The patch needs to be replaced every 7 days for the first three weeks of the month and no patch is worn on the last week of the month.  

      • Benefits 

        • Potentially may help acne and make periods lighter 

        • High effectiveness

        • Only needs to be replaced once a week

        • Possible to get pregnant immediately after ceasing use

      • Drawbacks

        • Only works effectively for those with a BMI below 30

        • Patch may be susceptible to falling off 

        • Requires manual maintenance 

  • How to Access It

    •  Must be prescribed by a healthcare professional

  • Potential Side Effects 

    • Nausea

    • Headache

    • Skin irritation around patch 

  • Works Best For

    • Those with a BMI under 30

    • Those who want a less invasive contraceptive that doesn’t require as frequent maintenance as the pill

    • Those who are not regularly submerged in water because it may compromise the adhesion of the patch

  • Contraindications

    • People with a BMI over 30

    • Smokers over the age of 35 


Vaginal Ring

Overview

  • Efficacy: 99%

  • STI Protection: The ring does not protect against STIs

  • How it’s used: The ring needs to be inserted into the vaginal canal. The NuvaRing needs to be replaced every 5 weeks while ANNOVERA lasts a full year.

  • Types

    • NuvaRing

      • How it works

        • The NuvaRing releases a continuous low dose of the hormones etonogestrel and ethinyl estradiol to prevent pregnancy 

      • Benefits

        • Has the potential to reduce acne and make periods lighter

        • High effectiveness

        • Option to skip period altogether

      • Drawbacks

        • Requires remembering to replace the ring 

        • Possible for ring to fall out 

        • Cheaper options than ANNOVERA ring

    • ANNOVERA

      • How it works

        • The ANNOVERA releases a continuous low dose of the hormones segesterone acetate and ethinyl estradiol to prevent pregnancy 

      • Benefits

        • Lasts a full year

        • Has the potential to reduce acne and make periods lighter

        • High effectiveness

        • Option to skip period altogether

      • Drawbacks

        • More expensive than NuvaRing because no generic exists currently

        • Cannot be used while breastfeeding

  • How to Access It

    •  Must be prescribed by a healthcare professional

  • Potential Side Effects 

    • Headaches

    • Nausea 

    • Sore breasts

  • Works Best For

    • Those who want total control over their birth control but don’t want the frequency of maintenance of the pill

    • Those who want a less long term hormonal option than the IUD

  • Contraindications

    • Smokers over 35

    • Breastfeeding people

It may take a few tries to find the best contraceptive method for your life. If you’re still unsure of where to start, try this Planned Parenthood quiz about what types of birth control might work for you. Make sure to consult your healthcare professional about the pros and cons of different contraceptives within the context of your life. Remember to use at least two contraceptive methods with one that protects against STIs every time you have sex. Sex can never be 100% risk-free but contraceptives greatly increase safety for everyone involved. 

Condoms for Coitus: Types of Condoms and Tips for Best Usage

Condoms get a bad rap. Most of that is made up of misconceptions though, which is why we’re here to clear them up. The reality is that condoms are an invaluable tool for safer sex. They are currently the only barrier method to effectively prevent the transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). You may be thinking “but I don’t have any STIs!” but in actuality, you can have asymptomatic, yet still transmittable STIs. The only way to ensure you do not have an STI is to get tested regularly. Condoms help prevent the transmission of STIs. It should be noted, there is no shame around STIs; they’re natural and they happen. That being said, most people would prefer to avoid them! 

Types of Condoms

When you think of a condom, you probably think about a latex sheath that rolls over any phallic object, be that penis or otherwise. Within this category of external condoms, there are a variety of options that differ in effects and material. There are also internal condoms.

Here are a few of the most common types of condoms:

  • External 

    • This is the condom you know and (maybe?) love. They are widely available, affordable, and 98% effective when used correctly. 

  • Internal 

    • Internal condoms, much less popular than their inverted sibling, are essentially a pouch that's inserted in the vagina or anus. It works like other condoms, except that it's worn on the inside.

  • Spermicide-coated

    • There are traditional condoms that are sold with a sperm-killing chemical on them. It is debatable whether the amount is significant enough to make a difference. The best bet, if you are interested in spermicide, would be to use a separate spermicide product in conjunction with condoms.

  • Polyurethane

    • Polyurethane condoms are an option for anyone who has a latex allergy. The biggest downside is that these are slightly more prone to breakage which is not a great quality for a condom. This means it is even more important than usual to have an additional contraceptive method on board with these types of condoms. An upside of these condoms is that polyurethane tends to be thinner than latex and may offer a preferable sensation for the person wearing them.

  • Flavored

    • Flavored condoms are exactly what they sound like: regular condoms that have flavors. These are best for oral sex, as opposed to vaginal or anal intercourse. As an aside, yes, you should be using condoms even for oral sex. The flavor has the potential to enhance the experience for the giver of oral sex but they should not be used inside any orifice of the body (e.g., vagina or anus) because the ingredients that create the flavor might cause irritation if used internally.

  • Textured

    • Textured condoms are also exactly what they sound like: regular condoms but with texture. While the texture offers no protective benefit, it may provide additional pleasure for the recipient of intercourse. It can be fun to experiment with different textures and evaluate how they impact the sexual experience. 

Tips

  • Always make sure your condom fits snugly but not so tightly it might break. Size is a huge factor in condom efficacy. 

  • Do not reuse condoms. 

  • Condoms expire! Regularly check their expiration date to make sure yours are still good to go; if not, they are far more likely to break. 

  • If your condom is not already lubricated, apply lube to the body before insertion to decrease friction (high friction leads to breakage).

  • Do not keep a condom in your wallet. The heat and friction are a recipe for breakage. 

  • Find a condom that you enjoy the feeling of, or at the very least do not mind. This way, you’ll be far more likely to use them. 

  • Do not use condoms with oil-based lubricant or any other oil-based product like baby oil or Vaseline. They will cause the condom to deteriorate. 

  • Do not wear more than one condom. It’s unnecessary at best and can lead to breakage at worst. 

  • For marathon sessions or longer sexual encounters, switch out condoms about every 30 minutes to prevent breakage. 

Happy National Condom Month! Now that you are aware of condom best practices, you can enjoy yourself while practicing safer sex with peace of mind.