10 Erotic TV Series to Watch with Your Partner This Fall

Written by Seth Taylor, ALMFT

In intimate relationships, the concept of eroticism holds a special allure that fuels passion and desire between partners. While physical intimacy plays a vital role, psychogenic arousal is also important. Psychogenic arousal, often referred to as mental or psychological arousal, is the process of creating sexual excitement through non-physical means. This form of arousal centers on stimulating the mind, emotions, and imagination, making it a powerful tool for enhancing sexual intimacy in relationships. This blog explores erotic TV shows that partners can watch together to help build eroticism in their relationships. So, the next time you and your partner are wondering what to watch next, try something from this list!

Note: These shows contain explicit sexual content, nudity, and adult themes. Viewer discretion is advised, and it's important to consider individual comfort levels and boundaries before watching them together as partners.

1. Masters of Sex

Set in the 1950s, this show delves into the groundbreaking research of Dr. William Masters and Virginia Johnson, pioneers in the field of human sexuality. The series explores the complexities of sexual desire, intimacy, and the psychology of arousal. Through their studies, the show presents explicit and thought-provoking depictions of sexual experiences, providing couples with a deep understanding of the various facets of human sexuality.

*Available (for purchase) on AppleTV, Prime, and Vudu.

2. Outlander

Combining historical drama with elements of fantasy, Outlander follows the passionate love story of Claire and Jamie Fraser. The show features intense romantic and sexual scenes, often showcasing the profound connection and desire between the main characters. The vivid portrayal of their relationship and their exploration of physical and emotional intimacy make it an enticing choice for couples seeking an arousing and emotionally charged viewing experience.

*Available on Hulu, Amazon Prime, and Netflix.

3. Black Sails

Set in the golden age of piracy, Black Sails is an adventure-filled drama that intertwines thrilling storylines with erotic undertones. The show portrays the lives of pirates and their romantic and sexual escapades. Through captivating narratives and alluring characters, it combines action, drama, and sensual elements, offering a compelling viewing experience for couples seeking excitement and a touch of the “forbidden”.

*Available on Hulu and Amazon Prime.

4. The Affair

This provocative drama explores the complexities of relationships and infidelity. The show delves into the intense emotional and sexual connections formed outside of committed partnerships. By delving into the motivations and consequences of illicit desires, The Affair stimulates discussions about monogamy, sexual exploration, and the multifaceted nature of human eroticism.

*Available on Paramount +, Hulu, and Amazon Prime.

5. Easy

An anthology series set in Chicago, Easy explores the intricate web of modern love, relationships, and sexual encounters. The show portrays a range of characters and their diverse experiences with sex, intimacy, and desire. With its realistic and relatable approach to exploring human connections, Easy prompts couples to reflect on their own desires, fantasies, and the challenges of maintaining intimacy.

*Available on Netflix.

6. You Me Her

This unique romantic comedy takes an unconventional approach by exploring a three-way relationship. The show delves into the dynamics of polyamory, love, and sexual exploration. It navigates the complexities of jealousy, self-discovery, and unconventional desires, creating an enticing viewing experience for couples open to exploring alternative relationship dynamics and the boundaries of traditional monogamy.

*Available on Amazon Prime.

7. Sex/Life

This steamy drama follows the journey of a suburban mother who reflects on her past sexual escapades while seeking passion in her present life. With its explicit and visually captivating scenes, the show explores the complexities of desire, fantasy, and longing for excitement. It ignites conversations about rekindling sexual desire within long-term relationships and the interplay between passion and domesticity.

*Available on Netflix.

8. Elite

A Spanish thriller set in an exclusive private school, Elite explores a web of relationships, secrets, and forbidden desires. The show's intriguing plot intertwines with explicit depictions of sexual encounters, exploring themes of attraction, lust, and the exploration of hidden desires. Through its alluring and intense scenes, Elite provides an exciting and stimulating viewing experience for couples seeking suspense, mystery, and passionate encounters.

*Available on Netflix.

9. Sex Education

This comedy-drama series centers around a socially awkward teenager who starts an underground sex therapy clinic at his high school. Through its exploration of various adolescent sexual experiences, the show provides a mix of humor and thought-provoking moments. It delves into topics such as sexual identity, consent, and communication while offering insights into the complexities of human desire and relationships.

*Available on Netflix.

10. P-Valley

Set in a Mississippi Delta strip club, P-Valley explores the lives of the dancers and their personal journeys. The show portrays the sensuality, empowerment, and vulnerabilities of the characters, highlighting the role of sexuality and eroticism in their profession. With its captivating performances and intimate moments, P-Valley delves into the themes of identity, self-expression, and the pursuit of desires.

*Available on Hulu and Amazon Prime.

Takeaway

Whether you and your partner are going for steamy, funny, mysterious, alluring, adventurous, or romantic, you’ll find it all on this list. Pay attention to those moments that make your brain and insides churn with sexual excitement. You can initiate sexual intimacy, sexy conversation, fantasy talk, or whatever else fun and new comes to mind to explore while watching binge-worthy shows. Finding new and fun ways to spice up your sex life is always worth it – give it a go and see what happens!

Prostate Stimulation: Benefits, Debunking Myths, and Getting Started

Written by Seth Taylor, ALMFT

The prostate, a small gland between the bladder and the rectum, has gained increased attention recently for its potential pleasure and health benefits. While historically associated with male sexual pleasure in the context of cisgender, heterosexual relationships, it's important to recognize that prostate stimulation can bring pleasure and health benefits to all individuals with a prostate, regardless of their sexual or gender identity. In this article, we will explore the benefits of prostate stimulation, debunk myths and misconceptions, and provide evidence-based information for individuals of all sexual identities to embrace and explore this often-overlooked aspect of sexual health.

What are the benefits of prostate stimulation?

The prostate gland is an erogenous zone; prostate stimulation can result in pleasurable sensations and even orgasms. However, the benefits of prostate stimulation go beyond sexual pleasure. Research has shown that regular prostate stimulation can have various health benefits. Some potential benefits of prostate stimulation may include the following:

1. Improved prostate health

Prostate stimulation can help release prostatic fluid (a fluid important for the proper functioning of sperm cells and fertility in people with a prostate), which may help reduce the risk of inflammation, infection, and prostate-related health issues such as benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) and prostatitis. Prostate health may or may not be something you have on your mind, but education on the topic can help you stay on top of your prostate health.

2. Enhanced sexual function

Prostate stimulation can improve sexual function by increasing blood flow to the pelvic area, enhancing sensitivity and pleasure, and potentially helping with issues such as erectile dysfunction (ED).

3. Reduced stress and improved well-being

Prostate stimulation can promote relaxation and stress reduction, similar to other forms of sexual activity. Reduced stress can also improve physical health by lowering the risk of heart disease, high blood pressure, weakened immune function, and other stress-related issues. It can also lead to enhanced mental well-being, better cognitive functioning, increased productivity, improved sleep quality, and strengthen relationships.

4. Enhanced emotional intimacy 

Prostate stimulation can be a form of sexual exploration and intimacy with a partner that promotes emotional bonding and intimacy. Given the historical stigma of prostate stimulation, many people with a prostate have never explored this part of their body and may feel vulnerable. Whether for health, pleasure or whatever your reasoning, including a partner in your process, may deepen intimacy and understanding between each other and each other’s bodies.

What are some myths and misconceptions about prostate stimulation?

Despite the potential benefits of prostate stimulation, several myths and misconceptions may discourage individuals from exploring this aspect of their sexual health. Let's debunk some of these myths with evidence-based information:

Myth #1: Prostate stimulation is only for homosexual cis men. This is a common misconception. Prostate stimulation can bring pleasure and health benefits to all individuals with a prostate, regardless of their sexual or gender identity.

Myth #2: Prostate stimulation is only for individuals with specific health conditions. While prostate stimulation may be therapeutic for certain prostate-related health conditions, such as prostatitis or BPH, it can also be a pleasurable and healthy sexual practice for individuals without specific health concerns.

Myth #3: Prostate stimulation is painful or dangerous. With proper technique, lubrication and communication, prostate stimulation should not be painful or dangerous. It's important to start slowly, use appropriate tools (such as prostate massagers or fingers), and communicate with your partner (if applicable) to ensure a safe and pleasurable experience.

Myth #4: Prostate stimulation is not "normal" or "acceptable" for individuals with diverse sexual identities. Prostate stimulation has nothing to do with one's sexual orientation, gender identity, or acceptability. It's a normal aspect of human anatomy and sexual health, and all individuals with a prostate, regardless of their sexual identity, have the potential to experience pleasure and health benefits from prostate stimulation.

How do I begin exploring prostate stimulation?

If you are interested in exploring prostate stimulation, here are some tips for getting started:

Educate yourself.

Learn about the prostate's anatomy, different prostate stimulation techniques, and potential health benefits. Refer to reputable sources such as medical journals, sexual health websites, and educational resources on sexual health and anatomy. Some books I’d recommend include “Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners” by Charlie Glickman, “Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples” by Jack Morin Ph.D., and “The Guide to Getting It On” by Paul Joannides.

Communicate with your partner.

Open and honest communication is crucial if you have a partner. Discuss your interests, desires, and concerns about prostate stimulation, and make sure you both have clear boundaries and consent.

Use proper techniques and tools.

Proper technique for prostate milking and appropriate tools, such as prostate massagers, finger gloves or finger condoms, prostate stimulating tools, and prostate vibrators, are important for a safe and pleasurable experience. Start slowly and gently, using plenty of lubrication, and listen to your body's cues. 

Practice self-care.

Like any sexual activity, self-care is important for prostate stimulation. Pay attention to your body, take breaks when needed, and prioritize your physical and emotional well-being.

Consult with a healthcare professional.

If you have any specific health concerns or medical conditions related to the prostate, it's always best to consult a healthcare professional. They can provide personalized advice and guidance based on your individual health needs.

Takeaways

Prostate stimulation is a pleasurable and healthy aspect of sexual health that can benefit all individuals with a prostate. It's important to debunk myths and misconceptions, educate ourselves, communicate with our partners, and prioritize self-care when exploring prostate stimulation. Remember that sexual health is a personal and individual aspect of our lives, and everyone has the right to investigate and enjoy their unique pleasures and experiences.

Sexual Senescence: How Sexuality Changes with Age and What to Do About It

The only constant in life is change and sexuality is no exception. Over the course of a lifetime, a litany of factors will affect one’s sexuality and relationship with sex, including, but not limited to, age, biological sex, physical ability, hormonal changes, life circumstances, body image, and trauma. Even though it is common for one’s sexuality to evolve over a lifetime, the relationship between aging and sex, sometimes referred to as “sexual senescence,” remains shrouded in taboo and misconceptions. One such ageist misconception is that seniors do not experience sexual desire or have sex. This is an inaccurate assessment, many seniors do maintain a thriving sex life. In fact, many people feel that they have a more fulfilling sex life in older age because they know more about what they like and how to communicate it. This article is for seniors who want to have sex but are feeling limited by the effects of senescence. It will discuss the common limitations for seniors interested in having sex and how to address them.     

How does sex change with age?

Changes in sexual function are a common part of the aging process, though they are not universally experienced in the same way by all individuals. The impact of menopause and andropause is a key factor influencing sexual health and desire in later life. Medically speaking, menopause officially begins 12 months after a menstruating person’s last period. That being said, menopause is preceded by perimenopause, which can also present with symptoms that are disruptive to your sex life like lower libido. Menopausal people might experience vaginal dryness, atrophy, or a drop in estrogen levels, which can impact their enjoyment of sex. Similarly, andropausal people may experience a drop in testosterone levels and accordingly, erectile dysfunction which could impact their enjoyment of sex.

How can I improve my sexual health during aging?

Fortunately, there are some interventions to help with these hormonal changes. Lubricants, regular moisturizing, longer foreplay and estrogen therapy can help relieve vaginal dryness brought on by menopause. Andropause can cause erectile dysfunction which can be addressed with medications and healthful habits. Such medical interventions include testosterone therapy and oral medications like sildenafil or tadalafil. Consider talking to your doctor about your specific concerns and how to best address them.

Does sexual dysfunction increase with age?

Due to hormonal changes and other factors such as disability, medication, and energy levels, low libido is not uncommon among seniors. Depending on the cause of your low libido, the intervention will look different. Fortunately, you do not have to simply resign yourself to these obstacles and there are options for addressing low libido and desire discrepancy in a relationship.  

How do you maintain sexual health in older age?

Since conception is often less relevant in late adulthood, some people are tempted to take fewer precautions to practice safer sex. Unfortunately, age does not protect people from contracting sexually transmitted infections. This means it’s still important to use safer sex practices. Condoms, vaccinations, and regular testing are great ways to minimize the risk of STI transmission. 

 An active, fulfilling sex life is possible at any age. What is normal for one person or partnership varies, so it is most important to figure out how to approach sexuality as you age based on your specific needs. Remember that penetrative sex is not the only way to be intimate with someone. You could explore using sex toys, trying more solo and/or mutual masturbation, giving each other massages, oral sex, or skin to skin cuddling. As your needs, wants, and capabilities evolve, your approach to addressing them has to evolve too. If you have limitations due to aging that prevent you from engaging in specific sexual activities, that does not mean forgoing a great sex life.   

Takeaways

The most important part of navigating your evolving relationship with sexuality is to keep an open line of communication between you and your partner(s) about what you want and what works best for you in approaching your sex life. If you need emotional and logistical support figuring out how to supplement your sex life, consider working with a therapist.